Tradition

 As we look toward a nice long weekend break, I am thinking of our family traditions that happen every year around this time.  Every family has their own unique traditions and many of them don't have anything to do with a special holiday.  But, some of us might be looking forward to egg hunts or dying and decorating hard boiled eggs, a special dessert you make only this time of year or family gatherings that everyone anticipates yearly.  These traditions become woven into the tapestry of your family identity.  

Other traditions such as Friday family movie night, summer beach days or cheering for your favorite sports team also define your family culture and build solidarity within the family.  Kids love traditions and love looking forward to upcoming events that recur on a regular basis.  It also creates a sense of security and consistency for them when they know that no matter what, these traditions will occur every year.  

My favorite family traditions are definitely family dinners during holidays, special dishes we always make, and the time we spend together enjoying each others company.  Traditions don't have to be expensive or fancy to be meaningful!  What are some of your family traditions?

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