Unlocking the Greatness in Your Child

 Parenting is a tough balance of training up your children, giving them guidance and directives and also inspiring them to be the best version of themselves.  Especially when they are young, children often hear more frequently, "Don't do that," or "No" compared to praise, recognition and support.  We have to set the boundaries but we also have to show our children where they are being successful.  Praise is a powerful tool and so is criticism.  Children thrive when adults believe in them and reinforce their unique strengths and abilities.  Kids are just waiting for someone to notice them, to see what makes them special and to motivate them to reach for the stars.  It's our job as parents to unlock the greatness that is hiding within our children.  What an amazing privilege!

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